House rules for dating teenagers
Unlike fully matured adults, teenagers need guidance to stay on their path and not stray into dangerous territories.
More importantly, they need to master the art of self-discipline, which can be achieved with rules that set clear expectations and consequences.
Yes, the prom as we knew it still exists, but even its drama pales in comparison to today’s boy-girl relationship issues.“It’s not your parents’ dating anymore,” concedes Robin Gurwitch, a clinical psychologist at the Duke Center for Child and Family Health.
“We don’t have the vocabulary and we don’t have the experiences to be able to help.
Ed Parrish, a banker and father of four from Graham, has noticed that his 13-year-old son has started asking his older sister if her friend’s younger sister can join her on visits to the Parrish home. Sometimes, his son will go to the movies with guy friends and “meet up” with a group of girls from school, Parrish says.
He feels comfortable with these early forays because “we’ve given him the talk about the need to respect young ladies and what we expect of him.”What to watch for: Cellphones and social media can lay traps for preteens and young teens.
They need liberty to explore life, discover themselves and transition into adulthood smoothly.
Parents need to know why they are setting the rules, and they also need to discuss the rules openly with their children.
Here are some of the most common dating rules and how they can be used most effectively to guide teens through the world of dating: Pros: You can set an age where most teens have a good maturity level and are able to think independently.
Pros: The Bible says Christians should be yoked to fellow believers.
If a teen is dating another Christian, there is a greater likelihood that they will remain abstinent and supportive of one another.When your adorable little one grows into a teenager, parenting ceases to be fun. Smart parents, like you, try to find ways to have peace at home.